Had you ever experienced being heart broken?

[bluephantom]

Enough with those money talk for a while and calm those money earning minds and lets talk heart to heart.

I know its not the right place but I have nowhere to ask. I made this thread for everyone to feel free to share about their experiences, the downs and falls of their relationship or even those happy memories youve shared.

So here's mine.
I was 2nd high school when I encountered this girl, named Esthela. She was pretty, I like the way she dresses herself, and she's very shy type/silent but talented. I remember treating her at the canteen and always visiting her at their classroom, we both enjoyed each others company (I thought) till she became my girlfriend. I was so happy. Then she suddenly changed, she ignores me, I call her and she seems bored and put the phone down. I text her that I missed her, love her. But she only says "ok". 6 months of this situation and it ends up.
To be continued.

[bluephantom]

Continuation. .

After that painful experience I become woman hater and had more than 10 girlfriends at the same time, 4personal and more than 6 girlfriends in different places. We had contact through text message at that time. And I then break up with all of them when I met Nessa, she taught me what love is. She is my 1st in everything, 1st date with friends, holding hands, kiss in cheeks. Almost all. We are 1year and 8months when I talked to Esthela, she said that she love me too, but I am with Nessa. So I broke up with Nessa and had Esthela back. But it didnt last long , she broke up with me, for the 2nd time. It hurts.

I am now 3rd year nursing student and going 4th year on the next school year. And very happy with my relationship from new.ü

If you have any experience just post it here Im very interested to hear it. Im very open to comments.

[Jinx]

Even gays have been broken heart at one time or another. It is a universal experience when anyone interacts with any other. Many move on, some stuck in the past. But whether you move on or stuck, it's all your own choice. No one ever forced you to, even the one who broke your heart in the first place. The sun will always rise on the east every morning and set on the west every evening, life goes on. So do us.

[bluephantom]

Thanks Jinks for the very good insight. Yeah it is really a lifelong process that eventually a cycle of love, being loved and being hurt. It is really your choice to move on or get stuck. So we just need to stand and go on. Who knows right? The one weve been looking for is just beside us all along.ü

Just keep posting your comments. I really appreciate your feedbacks.

[bluephantom]

Ive noticed that there are many views. And Im very thankful. I would encourage everyone to post any experiences regarding with the topic, or just post any comments.

I would really appreciate all comments and surely love to know about it.

[RaSnAke]

my heart broken ? whoa yeah ! big time ! you're right when you say you're not alone . millions have come before you, and millions will follow. as the song says "EVERYBODY HURTS" . welcome to life....sometimes it really...REALLY....****s !

[bluephantom]

Yeah we must face it. That life comes in both ups and downs, and I do believe no problem is given to us that we cant handle. As you have said you are being broken hearted. Could you share it to us?

[merylle16]

in my case i have a bf that i met in school, so we're schoolmates and we're in the same department as well. After 3 months of our relationship, he met his old friend from a camp (i met this girl too) after our camp i didn't know that the two of them have been texting each other. And soon have a relationship, i just knew it from my friends. But i didn't broke up with him. I waited for him to realize that i'm the one for him. And now we're still together, after 2years, I'm the one suffering because of the pain it left.

[bluephantom]

But i didn't broke up with him. I waited for him to realize that i'm the one for him. And now we're still together, after 2years, I'm the one suffering because of the pain it left.

Isnt it bad? If you ignore your feelings, and just let him do that for you? Although I am a bad person because what Ive done , I can advise that you shouldnt had done that, its like martyrdom. He did lie to you once and you just accept it, dont you think he'll not do it again? If I were you , you should had dump him or he'll do that to you. Dont be blinded by love. Open your eyes and youll see, there are lots of guys. Follow your mind once your heart doesnt know what to do. Thats why when we are saying "What I should do? We are thinking, not listening to our heart"It means. At the time you are confused, just think many times. Because when you are inlove your heart speaks only 1. Look at you , you follow your heart and didnt leave your bf, if you just follow your mind/ even just think many times. You will never be at pain right now.

[merylle16]

you know you're right, if I just dumped him earlier I'm not like this today. It's getting harder and harder and I don't know what to do. Actually he told me that he's sorry for what he have done to me. But the pain is done, if I could turn back the time. I'd choose to be free rather than being with a man like him. By the way thanks for the advice sir :)

[bluephantom]

Im glad my advice helped. You know merylle, our heart is too afraid to be hurt, thats why we always tend to continue risking loving the person for whom we know is face-to-face lying with/unloyal/ hurting you. We always think "What if I cant live without him/her?" thats why we are afraid to face the truth that we should move on. Our heart is already hurt. Should we let him do that again? Im saying this because I experienced it. And Im advising this. No matter how you love the person, you should left something for you. Because you cant give something that you dont have. Love your self first and everything will follow.